Staci Bishop

Thursday, April 10, 2014

[REVIEW] Birth Story: Ina May Gaskin & the Farm Midwives (Documentary)

I was surprised to see this documentary on the shelf at the library. I thought the only way to see it was through a live screening. I've seen it twice before but I giddily checked it out from the library and watched it again at home. This time, I viewed it with my 7-year-old daughter.

Ina May Gaskin has been called "the most famous midwife in the world." This film details how she got her start in midwifery and how The Farm Midwifery Center has developed and changed over the years.

Her husband, Stephen Gaskin was the founder of The Farm after he traveled the country on a speaking tour with a caravan of followers in the early 1970s. The Farm became the largest intentional community (commune) in the U.S. reaching a membership of 1000 at its peak.

"We had a dream to be in community, to help each other out, to raise our children in a different way and to take care of the planet." - Farm resident

With a large amount of young families, navigating birth quickly became a priority. Ina May assumed this role by chance but it became evident that this was her life's purpose and she has now been in midwifery for over 40 years.

"I've learned from books. I've learned from doctors. I've learned from midwives. A lot of stuff I've learned from women and allowing myself to be instructed by women." - Ina May Gaskin

The women of the original community would often get together to share their birth stories and eventually they turned them into written pieces.

"If a woman is afraid, she will not be relaxed. We were creating our own culture about birth and fear was not going to be a part of that." - Ina May Gaskin

A compilation of these stories was put together into a book entitled Spiritual Midwifery published in 1975. This book has now been distributed all over the world and is even used as a textbook in some countries.

"Midwives predate doctors but this profession is in danger of being wiped out by the ever increasing Cesarean rate... If nobody has labor there will be no need of a midwife and a lot of knowledge will be lost." - Ina May Gaskin

Currently, women are coming from all over the world to have their babies at The Farm, even as far as Africa.  Families typically come a couple weeks before their baby is due and stay up to a week afterwards.

Ina May has been working on a project for many years, The Safe Motherhood Quilt, which brings awareness to the increasing maternal death rate in the United States. America ranks 50th in maternal death despite the face that we spend more per capita than any other country. Ms. Gaskin maintains that this problem is fixable.

"We need more people to see real birth." - Ina May Gaskin

The Farm has delivered all types of babies in a variety of scenarios. They still train their midwives for breech deliveries which is currently not being taught in obstetrics. Ina May also has a technique named after her, The Gaskin Maneuver, that works well in a shoulder dystocia situation. The Farm Midwives have a large Amish population that they work with and continue to deliver those babies by candlelight with no running water. They do not induce women and have a very low Cesarean rate.

"We still follow the same principals that we always did. You always do the least invasive thing first." -Ina May Gaskin

Overall, I felt this was a beautiful film that really captured the spirit of The Farm. They interviewed many of the retired midwives as well as the new generation of midwives who are filling the gap. Ina May is often seen at home with her husband Stephen and it's interesting to see how their love and respect for each other has grown over the years.

My daughter was hesitant about seeing the birth scenes at the start of the movie. She even said she didn't want to have babies. By the end of the film, she declared that she, in fact, did want to have babies. Not only that, but she wants to have them at home in the tub with a doula and a midwife. As an aside, she also said she didn't want to go to the hospital because "they are too fancy and might mess something up." I love that she is being shown from an early age that there is nothing to fear about birth and it's an everyday, normal occurrence where fancy hospitals aren't required.

If you want to see Birth Story, a digital download is available online or you can purchase the DVD. Or you may check your local library to see if they have it available, as mine did! ;) Be sure to check out the extras. They were full of great information too.

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

nYn Featured with the Nashville Birth Network



Today nYn is being featured on the Nashville Birth Network
Below is a brief interview I did with them. 

We had the privilege of working with Staci at our Empowering Birth Conference. She was amazing with her positiveness and her energy level. I would love to work with her again.

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Staci Bishop, Owner of nYn, Certified Doula and Hypno-Doula

Why did you become a doula?

During my pregnancy I did a lot of research but, when it came time for birth, I realized that I didn’t know how to advocate for myself. I was steam rolled by a cascade of interventions and didn’t know how to make it stop. Not only do I want my clients to be informed but I want them to be empowered to stand up for themselves if needed. If things are veering from the birth plan, I can call a “time out” to give the family a chance to recognize their options and regroup.

Share 3 sentences about yourself.

I have been married for 8 years and just recently started homeschooling our 7-year-old daughter. I love all things related to summer including flip flops, water, and especially ice cream. My most memorable doula experience was a Leap Day baby!

What is your favorite thing about being a doula?

Honestly, I love watching the family fall in love. It happens almost instantly so you have to be looking for it. Mom meets the baby she has nurtured inside her own body and it’s love at first sight. Then, she looks over to Dad and feels such gratitude and admiration for how he cared for and encouraged her during labor. Dad falls head over heels for this little being that just made him a father (for the first time or the tenth, doesn’t matter). At the same time, he is amazed at what his Lover has accomplished and feels a deeper love and appreciation for her than he ever thought possible. It’s an honor to witness that moment and it draws be back again and again.

Tell me about your group.

nYn is a group of birth doulas providing resources for families in the Middle Tennessee area. We serve these clients during pregnancy, birth, and the postpartum period through education, encouragement, and hands on support. We respect all birth and parenting choices striving to help each family achieve their goals for labor & delivery. nYn believes that every woman deserves a doula! Potential clients may contact me for a complimentary consultation to see if nYn would be a good fit for you. Because we serve a variety of families, I’m always on the lookout to add more doulas to our team.

Thursday, March 20, 2014

Uganda Trip Preparation Update

At this point, the reality of my trip has set in yet I stay on the same roller coaster of emotions ranging from super excited to super anxious. Today, I'm somewhere in between so I thought I'd post a little update on what's been happening.

Last week I found out that Mercy for Mamas is applying for non-profit status. That means that all donations made payable to them (and earmarked for me) will be tax-deductible for you. Yay!

Mercy for Mamas  |  1604 Prairie Run Circle  |  Mulvane, KS 67110 

As many of you know, the only reason I even know where Uganda sits on the map is thanks to my Birmingham Bestie who adopted her little one from there in 2010.

Guess what.

Wait for it.....

She's going on the trip too!!!!!!!!!! How crazy awesome is it that I'm getting to visit Uganda for the first time with the person who introduced me to this country? God sure has a way of making good things even better! This trip has sweet memories already and I haven't even left yet.

Up next is renewing my passport that is currently expired. That's going to require a trip to the passport office, also known as the post office, so I'm sure you understand my delay. I never know what I'm going to get, so I'm hoping I catch them on a good day. ;)

I appreciate each and every one of you who have been excited right along with me and for those who have offered to pray for me. It warms my heart! For those who have already made donations, please know that each one has caused me to squeal with glee (or do the ugly cry) because I'm just so grateful! Every little bit puts me one step closer to helping mothers and babies in Uganda in a unique way. Thank you!